Today’s technical term for a good spanking is no longer S&M; it has evolved into BDSM and there is a colorful picture to somewhat explain the acronym to your right. For the average everyday couple that is looking for a little tweak to their twitch, here is where you can started: Bondage Around the House…
First off, everyone loves when control is taken from you. Be honest! If you're into kinky fuckery, you know what I mean.To dominant girls or a big guys, control is something you are used to. Play with the idea and it might be just what the doctor ordered for putting some Adobo in your sex life. Losing control through bondage or just through an agreement is the thrill of it all. There is a rush when we are not in control. We take what we can do during our moments of 'fuckery' for granted until those rights are gone. The limitations when it comes to sex can be quite arousing, e.g. your ability to see while blindfolded; your ability to touch while your hands are bound; your ability to squirm if you’re bound to something stiff, etc…
Fun facts about your significant other: learn their clothing sizes. It makes everything so much easier when your scheming about making things steamy. This leads to getting even more creative when you are looking to wrastle that thang and you don’t have to worry about what they are wearing.
Some fun items that guys can use on their ladies:
- Heels: that have the ankle strap; this is the best way to bind her feet to the legs of a chair, bed posts, etc… You can loop a tie between the straps and her feet are bound.
- Bracelets: fit over her hands but hang loosely so it will be easy to bind them anywhere.
- T-Shirt: The ladies always have these tight T-shirts and just pull it over her head like its around the back of her neck and shoulders then slide it half way down her arms and push her on to the bed face up. Voilà she is now bound at the elbows and your official sex dumpling.
- Bath robe: when she comes out of the shower and wants to tease you, open up her robe, slide it just passed her shoulders and then pull the robe together behind her like a huge ponytail and then twist the robe until it’s nice and snug around upper arm and shoulders then push her on to the bed and tease her until she needs to take another shower.
- Watches: this ruins the element of surprise if you have her put two on, so have her put one on and a bracelet. This is the best way to accessorize your excessive access to her sexiness.
- Cooking apron: Guys just be bold about it, have her wear the cooking apron naked and when her cooking gets your pots cooking just untie her apron and retie her hands behind her. After that do what you like.
Guys please remember that you can have this everyday stuff laying around and when she wears the right outfit, OR she wears what you have bought her to wear (hint, hint) you can spring your plan into action effortlessly.
Ladies here are some fun items to use on your man:
- Ties: of course for the guys it’s the easiest, strongest, most versatile thing in his closet. So tie until you can tie no more.
- Their own buns: Take a page from the SWAT/Police handbook of how to restrict the movements of your perp. Make him sit on his hands and they will be restrained by his own weight. It is best on a stool where his feet don't touch the ground. If his weight is on his hands he cannot use his legs to lift himself off of them.
- Dress shirts: if you have ever taken off or tried to take off a dress shirt off your man, its nearly impossible if he has not unbuttoned his cuffs. Keep them buttoned up and you will have him buttoned down.
- T-Shirts: Yes this works for guys too, just make sure it’s kind of tight. Guys tend have loose fitting T’s.
- Bracelets: Yes ladies this works on men as well. You can find very inexpensive rope bracelets and they will be sturdy enough to tie him to something. Shackle and tackle him, he will thank you for it in the morning...unless you ride that cowboy until the early morning.
Now the stage is set for some great action.
Know that you can get as creative as you like as long as you don’t go overboard. We want this to be a reoccurring theme. The better it is the more they will ask for it again and again. Just make sure they say ‘please’ or they get nothing. Losing control is just an illusion….or is it?
Happy cumming!
~Ivory
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